As the saying goes, good things happen to those who wait. However, I choose to believe that good things happen to those who want something so bad they cant sit still.
Whatever your circumstances may be, you have the power to determine your own fate. There are two types of people in this world: Those who sit back and wait for life to adjust to their needs, and those who get up and do something about it. Who says you cant have it all?
When I was younger, almost all of my friends were in serious long-term relationships. I thought for sure that they would end up together in the long run. Now that Im 28, I realize the relationships I witnessed when I was younger were just time passing by.
After all, how do you know what you want when youre in high school or even college? Youre too young to understand life and to want to put that person before yourself.What most people dont realize is that youre not really in love unless you do put that person before yourself. This theory took me 26 years to understand.
Im not sure if I believe in the word soulmate, solely because there are too many people on the planet and you may never meet the one person who could potentially be your soulmate.
However, you can always grow to love someone based on their behavior, traits and most importantly, the way they make you feel.
Here are signs that youve found your forever person:
1. You feel at home when youre together.
This may be complicated to understand, but bear with me. Have you ever had the feeling that when youre with your SO, theres no other place youd rather be? You had an awful day and all you want to do is come home to them and forget about it.
They dont even have to say anything to you. Just knowing that theyre there, present in the same room as you, makes everything better. All your worries go away because that person is your home. They are the sole person who can make you feel better by not even saying a word.
I know I’m not alone when I say I have because many of my friends have been in this position where they’re labeled as “crazy” for speaking their mind. You do this because you’re so comfortable with your partner that you know you have nothing to worry about. The fact that your partner gets you and doesn’t judge you is a major sign that you’ve found a partner in life.
There is no timeline for any of these things to happen or in any specific order, but the progress shows that your partner is serious and you have nothing to worry about. By taking these steps you know your relationship is progressing and you’re not wasting your time. One of the best ways to know someone is in it for eternity is when they always communicate with you and never allow you to question what they’re doing.